I really enjoyed this book. I think the author has a very good understanding of BPD for someone without the disorder. He included lots of examples of things such as Validation and how important it is to people with BPD. It was written with lots of compassion for sufferers. It tells you how to relate to people with the disorder in ways that will enhance your relationship. I would definitely recommend this book to loved ones of Borderline Personality Disorder sufferers.