Tag Archives: BPD

Fatigue and BPD – A Cartoon

What Fatigue and BPD Feels Like to Me:

What youre thinking Im thinking

What Im really thinking

BPD Magazine

BPD Magazine.


Lonely Lotus shares his personal struggle with BPD, MDD and GAD.  Very inspirational!  Please read and share!  Show him your support for bravely sharing his story with us.


Shut the door. Have a seat.: Understanding Bipolar/BPD: A Rant

Shut the door. Have a seat.: Understanding Bipolar/BPD: A Rant.

JoyB &BPD | My journey

Brand new blog about a woman with BPD among other mental illnesses.

JoyB &BPD | My journey.


BPD Pride

Many people with BPD and accompanying mental illnesses write their posts about their co-morbid illnesses, but not their BPD, because of the stigma.  People with say that they have physical illnesses rather than BPD.  Even with their therapists, they’re stigmatized because of their BPD.  Students studying Psychology are too ashamed to admit that they have BPD because of stigma – by people in the profession of mental health, no less!  Therapists, professors, doctors and nurses crack jokes  about BPD sufferers as “just another Borderline”  How do we stop this?  By coming forward with our Borderline Personality Disorder and not being ashamed of it.  By shouting it from the rooftops “I HAVE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER AND I’M PROUD OF IT!”  We are good people.  We have more empathy than most people.  We are creative, passionate, loving.  What we have to endure every day of our lives – the intense emotions that others will never feel, give us a strength that they can only dream of.

Are you ready to tell the world about your BPD?  Wear your BPD with pride!  I love all of you out there who have struggled along with me.

My Rant on Stigma

Yin-Yang DNA

Make BPD Stigma-Free!

Do people never take you seriously about anything?  I tell people about ideas I have but nothing ever happens.  They never say “Let’s work on that right now!”  They’re like “Oh, yeah.”  I have some things I would love to do, but I don’t feel strong enough at the moment, because of my life circumstances.  If things would improve for a bit, I’d probably be able to.  I want to so badly!  I don’t know if it would even make a difference or anything, but it can’t hurt, I guess.

I want to raise awareness, and erase the stigma of Borderline Personality Disorder.  I’d like people to be able to get help sooner, without have to wait for months, years or even decades before getting properly diagnosed.  I’d like teens to get the help they need instead of having to wait until they’re eighteen.  I’d like people to not get misdiagnosed and slip through the cracks of the mental health system.

I’m so frustrated!  I wasn’t properly diagnosed for about two decades!  No one should have to go through that!  There are advancements in neuroscience showing differences in the brains of Borderlines.  They should be able to detect it better.  But people aren’t getting the help they need.  Why?  The main reason is STIGMA!  If it wasn’t for the stigma of mental illness, more people wouldn’t be afraid to get help.

Borderline Personality Disorder is the most stigmatized mental illness.  Therapists are advised not to treat them because they are:  untreatable, manipulative, etc.  They are seen as having no empathy.

BPD affects more people than Schizophrenia and Bipolar Disorder combined.  Yet we never hear about it.

People with BPD have the most empathy of anyone.  Sometimes it doesn’t show itself because we have to numb ourselves to it because it becomes so overwhelming we cannot deal with it.  Many times we’re not even aware of it ourselves.  This is mistakenly taken as lack of empathy.

There are many articles and blog posts about how people have been hurt by Borderlines.  Maybe if there wasn’t so much stigma from articles and posts like these, people wouldn’t be afraid to get help and would get better sooner.  Just think what it’s like for the Borderline themselves!  You’re only seeing it from the outside.  They have to live with their intense emotions and thoughts, all day, every day of their lives!  They never get to take a break from it, ever.  They can learn Dialectical Behaviour Therapy skills to manage their thoughts and emotions, but they’re still there.  We have to learn how to try to function and appear as “normal” people the best we can.  If only you could walk in our shoes for one day, you’d see how strong we really are.


Here are some articles on Borderline Personality Disorder and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder from About.com:




So which is it? ADHD, BPD, BD

Great brief description of the differences between ADHD, BP and BPD


I posted a while ago, or is it blogged a while ago?  … on how hard it was sometimes to provide a diagnosis. Also why some are misdiagnosed, quite often. There has to be a reason for this, it is not like the profession is inept.

So it is hard. 

oh that is an excuse for messing up?



ok, so why. Look yourself over please, point out the diagnostic port that we can plug our sensor into.  

So diagnosis is based on what you answer, provide, divulge. A lot too, is what you don’t say. Sometimes with deliberateness, you don’t really want to talk about it. It is very personal, you are ashamed, embarrassed.

Or you don’t feel it is pertinent.

To be fair too, things change, some disorders coexist, or develop later. One may go untreated.


Mental, Mental, Mental.

Such a simple word, but it makes people cringe.

perhaps it…

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Do you notice that just before you get your period, your Borderline symptoms get worse?  Here is a great article on the subject:


BPD In The Movies

Here’s a link to an article on how characters who supposedly have BPD are portrayed in the movies.  What do you think?  Do you agree?


I saw Fatal Attraction years ago, and it doesn’t reflect BPD at all.  I agree with Sharon that Girl, Interrupted should have shown more of how difficult it is living with BPD.

BPD and Adolescents

Here are some links to some excellent articles about Borderline Personality Disorder and Adolescents:







We need to catch BPD early to save years or decades of unnecessary unbearable pain for BPD sufferers and everyone around them!

BPD and Bullying

This is a subject very close to my heart.  When I was growing up, I was teased constantly – all through public school and all through high school.  I was beaten up once in Grade 9 for speaking up about it, so I never did that again.  After Graduation, I became agoraphobic for a few years.  I started therapy.  It was several years later that I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.  It was because of this bullying that I had these thoughts ingrained in me that I was not good enough.  I attended a DBT program and got better.  We need more awareness of BPD and reduce the stigma associated with it.

Please share your stories and bullying and BPD.  Click on the link below to read more about it:


Also see this post about Shane Koyczan: To This Day by Shane Koyczan

Welcome to “Make BPD Stigma-Free” !

Welcome to “Make BPD Stigma-Free” !  My mission is to increase awareness of Borderline Personality Disorder, and reduce the stigma surrounding it.  BPD is a very complex disorder that causes immense suffering for those afflicted with it, along with family members, friends, co-workers and others involved with the BPD sufferer.

In posts to come, I will be exploring many aspects of BPD.  Please see the article entitled “Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)” for a summary of the disorder.  I will be explaining each item further.

Check back here often or, better yet, follow my blog.  Thanks for reading!  I hope you will learn more about Borderline Personality Disorder with me in my journey to wellness.


HealingFromBPD.org: We Are Not Monsters | Borderline Personality Disorder

This post from Debbie Corso dispels some of the myths surrounding people with BPD:  HealingFromBPD.org: We Are Not Monsters | Borderline Personality Disorder.  Please check it out and comment.

Attachment / abandonment shite