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Hope Is Real!: Acceptance and Stigma

Hope Is Real!: Acceptance and Stigma.

HealingFromBPD.org – Borderline Personality Disorder Blog: Wait, is that considered self-harm? (NSSI Non-Suicidal Self-Injury)

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HealingFromBPD.org – Borderline Personality Disorder Blog: Wait, is that considered self-harm? (NSSI Non-Suicidal Self-Injury).

BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER – The Real Me (TRIGGER WARNING!)

‘Manipulative’????? And how she is dead… Suicide trigger warning | Beauty From Pain Blog

‘Manipulative’????? And how she is dead… Suicide trigger warning | Beauty From Pain Blog.

“Theoretical Pedophile” James Kincaid To Speak At OISE Symposium

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Sick quote in article!

Living in Anglo-America

 

“Theoretical Pedophile” James Kincaid To Speak At OISE Symposium
Dr. Charles McVety writes:
Dr. Kincaid is a well-known advocate for pedophilia, a criminal activity in Canada. He has authored several books on the topic including Child Loving in which he states “If the child is desirable, then to desire it can hardly be freakish. To maintain otherwise is to put into operation pretty hefty engines of denial and self-deception.”

The infamous organization NAMBLA (North American Man Boy Love Association) lists Dr. Kincaid as an advocate while depending on his arguments for the advancement of child abuse. Dr. Kincaid admittedly refers to himself as a “theoretical pedophile” and frequently uses the collective terms “we” or “us” when discussing child molesters.

His work has been roundly condemned by the New York Times, The Daily Mail, several British Members of Parliament and Michael Hames of Scotland Yard.

He plans to offer his…

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3,000 Canadians Sign Petition to Stop Pedophilia Advocate from Entering Canada

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Sick and disgusting quote from so-called “Dr.” James Kincaid himself:

“If the child is desirable, then to desire it can hardly be freakish. To maintain otherwise is to put into operation pretty hefty engines of denial and self-deception.”

If a child is desirable to you in that way, then you are freakish and A SICK PERVERT!

3,000 Canadians Sign Petition to Stop Pedophilia Advocate from Entering Canada.

Deception and the Borderline Personality: What Could have Been? New Comment

Excellent comment to a very stigmatizing article / blog post:

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http://organizationalchangesolutions.wordpress.com/2011/03/11/deception-and-the-borderline-personality-what-could-have-been/#comment-1479

Borderline Personality Disorder Video by Sarah Clark

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BPD Self Harm thoughts & behaviors – trigger warning

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Please don’t continue if you are at risk of self harm or feeling suicidal as this post contains triggers. I do not wish to adversely affect any one else’s struggle with Mental Health. This is my stuff.

I had thought of not posting this as I feel like a thought thief but it is more a gathering of information, dissemination and realization.

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This comes after a recent event that I am having trouble getting past. I need to compose these thoughts so that I can understand them.

Since 8 years old, I knew I was not like my peers. I have memories from as early as 4 yrs I now know were not normal.

This is only re-enforced when I compare and peer with fearful diagnostic eyes upon my own sons life. I have always been assured to find only a beautiful, well balanced, compassionate and caring young man…

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The Invisible Fist of Verbal Abuse — The Good Men Project

The Invisible Fist of Verbal Abuse — The Good Men Project.

I Cut Myself: Exploring My Relationship with Self-Mutilation — The Good Men Project

I Cut Myself: Exploring My Relationship with Self-Mutilation — The Good Men Project.

fuckyouborderlines@burninhell.com

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HealingFromBPD.org: Resources: Men and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Debbie Corso from HealingFromBPD.org shares this great blog post featuring videos and helpful resources for men with BPD.  ***TRIGGER WARNING*** for the videos!

http://www.my-borderline-personality-disorder.com/2013/07/resources-men-and-borderline.html

“Fucking mental cases. You Borderlines deserve to die.”

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Thoughts on Death and Emotional Pain

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I had this post in my head for a long time.  Just a vague idea of what I wanted to write.  It’s kind of a difficult post.  I’ve had these feelings for years.  I’ll try to describe them the best I can:

I’ve often wondered how someone can feel so much emotional pain and not die?  I don’t mean by suicide.  I mean that your body can’t handle the pain and you just die.  But you never do.  You keep existing.  Not living, just existing.  Day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year, decade after decade.  Wondering “is this all there is to life?”

Has anyone else ever thought about this?  Or is it just me?

My Friend, My Crutch

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My Friend, My Crutch

I have you in case I need you,
But since I have you, I don’t need you anymore.
But it feels so good knowing that you’re there if I do need you,
That you can make all my pain go away.

You make me feel safe,
I can lean on you,
My crutch, my support,
My friend, my enemy,
My salvation,
My security blanket beneath my pillow, where I rest my head.

I wish I didn’t need you,
That I could cope on my own,
But I feel too weak.

So I retreat into my mind,
An endless soap opera,
Much better than the painful real life I lead every day.
Where I control the players,
I control the plot.
If only I could control these thoughts and emotions that overtake my mind every day.

Maybe someday I won’t need this crutch anymore,
Maybe I can learn to cope.
Until then, I know I can depend on you,
That you won’t betray me like all the others around me.
My crutch, my support,
My friend, my enemy,
My salvation,
My security blanket.

By Joyce Savage.

TatteredSheets[Trigger Warning] — The following traits are typical of someone who could be considered to have borderline pathology:

The most comprehensive list of symptoms I’ve ever seen!  You do not need all the symptoms to qualify for a diagnosis.

TatteredSheets[Trigger Warning] — The following traits are typical of someone who could be considered to have borderline pathology:.

My Life With Borderline Personality Disorder

Problem with Perfectionism: To “C” or Not to “C” (That is the question)

Another excellent post by Debbie Corso of HealingFromBPD.org:

http://www.my-borderline-personality-disorder.com/2013/06/perfectionism-school-bpd.html

Includes a video.  Possible TRIGGER WARNING.

Articles and Handouts – BPD Central

Very in-depth article.  Includes poems and accounts from BPD sufferers.  Trigger warning on page.

Articles and Handouts – BPD Central.

Overcoming One of My Biggest Regrets From When BPD Ruled My Life

By Debbie Corso of Healing From BPD.org.  Very powerful and inspiring piece.  Possible Trigger Warning.

http://www.my-borderline-personality-disorder.com/2013/05/overcoming-one-of-my-biggest-regrets.html

Borderline ~ Teach us how to live

Rethinking BPD:  A Patient’s View brought tears to my eyes.

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This is a tough one.

Borderline Personality Disorder ~ BPD.

I have a few videos, they all may not interest everyone, some will, I feel they have a stronger impact and ability to teach… as the alternative is just my words, which you may skim over.prepare to learn.

This post is not just to provide a background on BPD for those that have none, but to show that this can be treated to the point the BPD classification is removed from the patient. WOW. 

DBT is not the only treatment with success in working with BPD, There are a few. We are developing and learning new therapies to help cope/treat. Research is ongoing, over recent years there have been large leaps.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy
Dialectical-behavioral therapy
Transference-focused therapy
Mentalization-based therapy
Schema-focused Therapy

 

With borderline, therapy is successful, medication not so much. Meds can treat some symptoms, anxiety or depression, therapy can restore the patient. 

While I…

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Cause of Borderline Personality Disorder

Another post by Catherine Taylor, this one about the causes of her BPD. So heartbreaking, yet so full of inspiration.  Includes a video about the differences between Borderline brains and those without BPD.

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http://www.squidoo.com/the-cause-of-borderline-personality-disorder

Types of Borderline – Quiet Borderlines

Usually, when you think of Borderline Personality Disorder, you think of people who rage at the slightest thing.  But there are different types of Borderlines.  For example – Quiet Borderlines.  They are different than other Borderlines in the way of turning their rage inward.  Not as much is heard or written about this type of Borderline.  I happen to be a Quiet Borderline.  Below are some articles about the different types of Borderlines, especially Quiet Borderlines:

http://psychscoop.wordpress.com/2012/08/11/types-of-borderline-personality-disorder/

http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com/my_weblog/2008/07/the-quiet-borde.html

http://www.downwardspiralintothevortex.com/2012/05/quiet-borderline-borderline-waif.html

Here is a video of The Silent Suffering of the Quiet Borderline. May be triggering for some people.

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